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Can I Desire a Spouse That Is of an Equal or Higher Station than Myself?

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Answered by Shaykh Yusuf Weltch

Question

Is it permissible to desire a spouse that is of an equal or higher station than oneself?

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate

Desiring a spouse that is righteous is praiseworthy, especially if one intends seeking someone who can help them in their Deen. The Prophet (may Allah bless him and give him peace) gave criterion for one to choose a spouse.

Seeking a Wife

The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and give him peace)  said, “A woman is married for four (reasons): for her wealth, for her status, for her beauty, and for her religion. Thus, seek the religious one, you will be successful.” [Bukhari]

Seeking a Husband

The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “If one (i.e. a man) proposes to you whose religion and character please you, then marry him. If you do not, there will be trial in the land and vast corruption.” [Tirmidhi]

Hope this helps

Allah knows best

[Shaykh] Yusuf Weltch
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

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