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This answer was collected from the official ifta website of Darul Uloom Deoband in India.

Assalam Alai Kum, I got married in Nov 2004 in India as per my parents choice and moved to USA in Dec 2004 alongwith my husband to stay here.Immediately within 3-4 months of our marriage problems started and now it is such a case that neither of us like each other and are living together with great torture.We always fight a lot and everytime my husband blames me only and always says that am the root cause of all tension in house and he is very innocent and also always he keeps on telling me that I need to see a psychiatrist as am crazy.He is greatly influenced by his elder sisters,two in number back in India who fill his mind with evil whenever they call and speak to him.He hates my family especially my mother and talks extremely bad of her to the extent he uses worst foul words for her,though my mother has in no way harmed him anytime.He dsnt have parents and is from a low economic background and has always been jealous of my possessions and the gifts my family gives me as alhumdulillah my family is very affluent.He restricts me from talking to my parents and also hasnt given me some rights which a wife needs.For example I have no access to his money in USA.He keeps sending money to his sisters though they all are married and well settled in their life.We have a 16 month child and he ill treats the child too.He always warns me that he will remove me from house and keep the child with him as I am alone in US.He also always from beginning has been telling me that he is too handsome for me and am not fair and I look like a servant.I am wheatish colored and not very fair.When we went to India for a visit recently we stayed in his sisters house there he hit me and threatened me also.I want to ask how do I go about taking divorce from this man?My parents have tried all possible solutions till now and nothing has worked.They have spoken to his elders also but to no avail.He & his sister also always accuse my character and says am characterless and cheap though Allah knows well how pure Iam.When i read Quran he always creates loud voice by TV or singing purposely to distract me.He also dsnt like me reading Quran for long time.Now the thing is the environment in our house is very bad.I am unable to tolerate his mean talk anymore and his mental torture as am alone here and he dsnt allow me to talk to anyone.Please advise me how I go about taking divorce.Also I want to ask if I can live separate from him for some months and go back to India so that in that time we both can think calmly?Please advise suitably.

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Assalam Alai Kum, I got married in Nov 2004 in India as per my parents choice and moved to USA in Dec 2004 alongwith my husband to stay here.Immediately within 3-4 months of our marriage problems started and now it is such a case that neither of us like each other and are living together… read more »

Aslam o aalaikum.i m having problem relatd to wozo.after perfoming it i m in doubt i have preseminal fluid drops or urine drops and one more thing few times i have found some pre seminal fluid drops.as previously in fatwa 8036 u have said tht go n check and confirm and walk for some mins after passing urine and before performing ablution.Now i when i will walk after passing urine i will have some drops falling on my salwar ,so thn i should change my clothes as some times its hard to find stains or wetness in the slawar.to prevent it i am following this routine .i go for urine for less no of times for exmaple after isha i will change my trouser and then i will pass urine and after passing 15 mins i will do wuzu and thn change my clothes again.same in the day time. 1) its reaally time consuming to wait for 10 -15 mins or change everytime,is thr any way else 2) if after passing urine and i perform wozo after 5mins thn different thoughts r coming to mind tht some drops have come and when i check thr are no drops or not wetness .How to avoid it 3) similarly in isha prayer i feel the same thing and after farz i go to bathroom to check but i didnt find anything 4) now I am going in the way of Allah for 4 months .and it will be really hard to change clothes after passing urine each time .CAuse if drops r comees after passing urine my clothes will become impure and i cant pray in that .please can u tell me easy solution so i can have little problem

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Aslam o aalaikum.i m having problem relatd to wozo.after perfoming it i m in doubt i have preseminal fluid drops or urine drops and one more thing few times i have found some pre seminal fluid drops.as previously in fatwa 8036 u have said tht go n check and confirm and walk for some mins… read more »

My mother is suffering from ligament tear in her left leg and doctor has now said that the cartilage has degenerated. The problm is from last 3-4 months and it happened at all at once. There seems no improvent by the medicines. Pls give some wazifa or any thing else.

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My mother is suffering from ligament tear in her left leg and doctor has now said that the cartilage has degenerated. The problm is from last 3-4 months and it happened at all at once. There seems no improvent by the medicines. Pls give some wazifa or any thing else. Answer (Fatwa: 809/638/D=1431) Below are… read more »

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