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It is tradition of Hindus in India to wear Laccha (made up of small black pearl type material) after marriage, it is commonly found in Muslims also. My question is that wearing of that is haram or can any one wear it, if their in-laws stressing to wear then what is the fatwa for it. Kindly give me a good description for it, that from where that tradition is followed by Muslims and why.

Is it ok to host or attend functions like: 1. Mehndi. 2. Manje/Haldi. 3. Jumagi. 4. Birthdays. 5. Anniversaries (Marriage or Death). 6. Graduation functions. 7. Baby Showers (generally 7th month of pregnancy/sathwaasa). 8. Hadiya – Child completes the first recitation of the entire Qur’an. 9. Bismillah – When a child starts the recitation of Qur’an. 10. Chilla (40 days after birth of a child). 11. Chetti (6 days after birth of a child). 12. Ziyarat (3 days after the death of a person). 13. Chehlum (40 days after the death of a person). 14. Barsi (1 year after the death of a person). 15. Kheer-Pooriyan. 16. Saymani. 17. Niyaz. 18. Burdah-Shareef. 19. Gyarwin (11th)?

Recently, a sister asked me if her nikah is valid or not?

It has been 4 years to my marriage and still there is communication gap with my wife, its a long story, which are creating problems in my life by my in-laws, and due to this there were one year linking gap between us. Now from 2 years everything is perfect but I feel loneliness I feel that I am alone, I have 2 children. she does not communicate with me but we are still living in that condition, I am living with my family. I want to ask what can I do as per shariah or should I wait for the right time.

If a Muslim man has sex with his wife from her back part, does the nikah remains or not?

Mere parents ne meri baat aik jaga paki ki thi jab main choti thi aur woh larka mere chacha ka beta hai.mager jab main bari huee to mughe woh larka pasand nahi aaya aur mughe mere aik aur cousin se piyar ho gaya hai jo mughe bohut acha lagta hai. Ab main kiya karon aur apne parents ko kaise manaon mughe koi qurani dua ya kuch batayen jis se sabh log aur mere parents razi ho jayen. Us dosre larke ko bhi main pasan hon.

Women, mostly western often question the fact that men would get multiple Hoor in Jannah, whereas they would get only a single husband, and regard this as unfair to women. They know they would be the leader of the Hoor, but still are not satisfied. How do we address this complaint?

My cousin (Sunni Muslim) in Pakistan is working in company and his colleague (a Shia girl) both want to marry each other. But my cousin’s family doesn’t agree with this marriage. The girl says she will convert to Sunni to marry him. But the girl’s family will still remain Shia and the girl doesn’t want break the relationship with her family. But you know the aftermath of this marriage. What will be the effect on their children having both religion (Sunni and Shia)?

I heard that nowadays, girls of marriageable age should have one photo of themselves just in case some boy’s family asks for it with the intention of a marriage. The reason stated was that if you don’t then you won’t get any proposals. Is having a picture taken permissible in this situation?

Is it true that some of the sufia-e-kiraam did not get married their whole life. If it is true why haven’t they got married, what are the circumstances in which a Muslim is allowed to live without getting married . For example it is famous about Imam shaafi that he did not get married. And also I would like to know the meaning of hadith the mafhoom of which is “Nikah is my sunnah and whosoever abstain from my sunnah is not amongst us”.

If an alim becomes murtad then after 2-4 months renews iman is he still classed as alim?

I have been approached for marriage by a brother. I have known him for a very long time through a mutual business relation. I had refused at first but now I am reconsidering. What is the proper was of performing namaaz ishtikarah to see if I should accept. Are there any other duas or namaz that I can pray for guidance in doing the right thing.

This is regarding marriages in India. In India there is a tradition of giving furniture and other thing by the parents of the girl. I want to ask is it permissible to take all such things in Islam. Even if boy does not ask for these things they will give. Is it right to take or are there any restrictions in Islam.

I’m sorry, but I did not understand your explanation of Tasawwuf in Q596. Can you kindly explain this topic in detail using simpler words, and possibly quoting some examples?

My question is about heena (mehendi) which girls usually put on their hands on every occasions like marriage or Idd, is this right?