Home » Hanafi Fiqh » ShariahBoard.org » Mere parents ne meri baat aik jaga paki ki thi jab main choti thi aur woh larka mere chacha ka beta hai.mager jab main bari huee to mughe woh larka pasand nahi aaya aur mughe mere aik aur cousin se piyar ho gaya hai jo mughe bohut acha lagta hai. Ab main kiya karon aur apne parents ko kaise manaon mughe koi qurani dua ya kuch batayen jis se sabh log aur mere parents razi ho jayen. Us dosre larke ko bhi main pasan hon.

Mere parents ne meri baat aik jaga paki ki thi jab main choti thi aur woh larka mere chacha ka beta hai.mager jab main bari huee to mughe woh larka pasand nahi aaya aur mughe mere aik aur cousin se piyar ho gaya hai jo mughe bohut acha lagta hai. Ab main kiya karon aur apne parents ko kaise manaon mughe koi qurani dua ya kuch batayen jis se sabh log aur mere parents razi ho jayen. Us dosre larke ko bhi main pasan hon.

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Mere parents ne meri baat aik jaga paki ki thi jab main choti thi aur woh larka mere chacha ka beta hai.mager jab main bari huee to mughe woh larka pasand nahi aaya aur mughe mere aik aur cousin se piyar ho gaya hai jo mughe bohut acha lagta hai. Ab main kiya karon aur apne parents ko kaise manaon mughe koi qurani dua ya kuch batayen jis se sabh log aur mere parents razi ho jayen. Us dosre larke ko bhi main pasan hon.

By means of a friend, allow this information to reach your parents. If they are understanding, then they will accept your situation and will give preference to the proper boy. You should also tell them openly that because of your extreme liking for the boy, that marriage to the one whom you do not wish marriage will cause you great harm. Also, read ayat number 165 of Sura Baqarah seven times and blow it on those things which your parents normally eat or drink; this should help. And you should also pray that may change their hearts towards that which you desire.

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