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intimacy

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Assalamo alaykum, I want to know that if menstuation cyacle is going on , and husband do sex , with both permission ,so what is the kaffarah or tauba for this. both are believe in sunnah and perform everything according sunnah. but mistake once..

Answered by Darulifta-Deoband.com

assalamo alaykum, I want to know that if menstuation cyacle is going on , and husband do sex , with both permission ,so what is the kaffarah or tauba for this. both are believe in sunnah and perform everything according sunnah. but mistake once.. Answer (Fatwa: 472/472/M=1431)   Doing intercourse during menstruation period is haramas it… read more »

Assalamoalekum WW I am a girl of 21 years, I feel in love wid my classmate 3 years back and after thinking a lot with a religious point of view we had Nikah 1 and a half years back, it was a secret marriage involving me n my bridegroom n 3 witnesses( all baligh). we didn’t inform our parents about it. Gradually our physical intimacy increased and we had a sexual relationship. about 6 months back, the boys parents got to know about it, they came to inform my parents and his mother warned me not to talk to her son, and left things for the future, the boy was also given this warning. But being in the same class and being sexually addicted it was impossible for us to stay without talking to each other for so long, and things bacame the same between us. Now and then the boys mother keeps on crying and cursing him for taking such a big step without informing her, because being a mother off-course she had lots of dreams for his marriage. I being a girl, dont want to go to his house in the future where my in-laws dont want to accept me. The boy is very religious and he has told me clearly he will do watever his parents ask him to do, if they ask him to divorce me , he will divorce me. I am in a fix now as to what should I do. My parents dont know the details of the nikah and they dont know that I am actually married because they have a different mindset and for them nikah means something like a big ceremony and they think this was just a childish thing that we did and it should be forgotten. They dont know that I was physically involved with him, and I dont have the courage to tell them this. Wat should I do now? Should I stop talking to the boy? In case his parents ask him to divorce me, will I have to Sit on Iddat? In case I am college going, can I sit on Iddat without missing college, as being a student it is very difficult 4 me to miss college 3 months?Is it possible to sit in Iddat secretly? Wat should we do, should we listen to our parents or continue with our marriage? Pleaase reply as soon as possible I am undergoing a very bad phase of my life please help me as soon as possible. Duaon ki Darwkhwast hai

Answered by Darulifta-Deoband.com

Assalamoalekum WW I am a girl of 21 years, I feel in love wid my classmate 3 years back and after thinking a lot with a religious point of view we had Nikah 1 and a half years back, it was a secret marriage involving me n my bridegroom n 3 witnesses( all baligh). we… read more »

Rujuu by touching the wifes hand

Answered by DarulIftaBirmingham

In October 2007 I issued my wife one talaaq over the phone.(saying – I am issuing you with one talaaq) before she completed her idaat I met with her a few times. In these meetings I touched her hands played with her hair and talked normally. There was no further intimacy. What is the position of… read more »

Parents refusing to accept divorce

Answered by DarulIftaBirmingham

In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful Answer In the eyes of Allah (SWT), talaq is the most detestable of all the lawful acts.   It is reported from Ibn-Umar (RA) that the Prophet (SAW) said: “In the sight of Allah (SWT), the worst of all halal (lawful) acts is talaq.”… read more »

Delicate issues

Answered by DarulIftaBirmingham

Is anal sex permissible? Can one rub his private parts with his wife’s breast? In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.  Answer Anal sex is prohibited in Islam. It is narrated by Saaiduna Ibn Abbas Radiallahu Anhu that the Prophet of Allah Sallahu Alahi Wasalam has said: “Allah does not look… read more »

Concept of Divorce

Answered by DarulIftaBirmingham

  In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful   Concept of Divorce Answer   Nikah (marriage) is an instinctive need of a man and woman, and a means for the preservation of mankind. Moreover, nikah is a desired act and its lifelong fulfilment and safekeeping have been stressed upon.   The… read more »

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