Assalamualaikum,
In which Surah of the Quran e Majeed can we find the details about relationship between husband and wife, and their duties towards each other?
After having responsibility of parents to be taken care of, a man has the responsibility of his spouse and kids next, which is
Farz and he fulfilling other duties towards siblings and relatives is husn-e-sulook…Is it appropriate that he go for husn-e-sulook foregoing his farz responsibility towards his spouse and kids after his parents?
Heard that after getting her son married, even his mother cannot stop him from getting intimate with his wife and having kids (for any time period). In such a scenario, do other relatives and siblings of him have a ryt to stop
the Man from doing so?? If yes, can he deprive his wife of her ryts and her
desire of having kids, and every other ryt towards her (in every aspect)?
Do the husband or his parents, his siblings, or his relatives have to ryt
to insult wife, her siblings, and her parents as heard that “MIYA-BIWI EK
DOOSRE KA LIBAAS HOTE HAIN”, or vice versa with the wife and her parents,
siblings, or relatives insulting husband. So as per this, both shud respect
each other, their parents, siblings, and relatives.. whoever it is. Can u
please put some light on this as per the Holy Quran e Majeed.
Can husband deprive wife’s rights after getting married (like bearing
kids, as every woman dreams of having one), just giving some lame excuses?
and later on blame on wife stating it is because of her he is not able to
have kids or something else…
Heard that husband doesn’t have the right to ask for woman’s salary and it
is her husn e sulook if she wants to share it with her husband. In such a
case, is it the right of the wife to repay the loans that the husband has?
and if she is not able to do, is it appropriate for the husband to feel bad
regarding this stating she is not helping him financially? And do the
parents, siblings, or relatives of the guy have the right to ask her for her
pay, either directly or indirectly?
الجواب وباللہ التوفیق
You may study the following books in this regard. These books are also available on the internet:
(۱)تحفۂ زوجین مؤلف حضرت اشرف علی تھانویؒ ۔
Tohfa e Zojain – Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi
(۲)ازدواجی زندگی کے آداب مترجم :مولانا محمد عمران انور نطامی صاحب۔
Izdawaji Zindagi ke Aadaab – Maulana Muhammad Imran Anwar Nizami
(۳)ازدواجی زندگی کے شرعی احکام مؤلف مولانا اقبال قریشی صاحب مد ظلہ۔
Izdawaji Zindagi ke Shara’i Ehkam – Maulana Iqbal Qureshi
(۴)شوہر کے حقوق اور بیوی کی ذمہ داریاں مولف مولانا ہارون معاویہ صاحب
Shohar ke Huqooq aur Biwi ki Zimmedariyan – Maulana Haroon Mua’awiyah
(۵)سکون خانہ (میاں بیوی کے حقوق وذمہ داریاں) مولف مفتی مکرم محی الدین قاسمی صاحب
Sukoon e Khanah (Miyan Biwi ke Huqooq o Zimmedariyan) – Mufti Mukarram Mohiyyuddin Qasmi
والسلام