| Bismihi Ta’ala
Sorry for the delay in this answer.
I deeply remorse your situation. Every married couple goes through a rough patch. It is inevitable. It always takes the patience, understanding and maturity of one to make the marriage successful. If both become impatient then things can go wrong. Shaytaan is constantly making efforts of this kind, to create hatred between spouses and also, to decrease their level of deen. A strong believer never allows Shaytaan to overpower them. Why has your situation with Allah changed?You must give it a deep thought and make some strong and firm resolutions and hold tightly to them.
Alhamdulillah, as mentioned by yourself, you are a mother of so many children whom are looking upto you, consider you to be their role model, who learn from your cradle of knowledge. You must take their future into consideration and do it for the best.
Why has your husbands behaviour changed? What are the reasons? Ponder over these aspects and try to resolve them. Ask him to take a soft approach whilst you are in the sensitive stages of your pregnancy, for the best of both, yourself and the child. Maybe there is a breakdown of communication. Maybe you are not telling him of your feelings.
The blame is not on you at all, but these measures must be taken to ensure your well-being and the well-being of your children. Re-kindle your strong faith in Allah and make plenty of Du’aa that he helps you through these times.
May Allah help you in your situation.
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Mufti Yaseen Shaikh
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