I wanted to ask that in our house only girls are born whereas everybody wish including my husband, is that boys are born. This time also Allah has given a daughter and Alhamdu Lillah but, could there be a reason for it? Or could you please inform of a Wazeefa by practicing which, Allah will be kind towards us and the everybody desire is fulfilled?
الجواب حامدا و مصلیا
It is solely in the power and control of Allah the Almighty, to give sons or daughters as offspring and He blesses the way He wishes with sons and daughters to whomever He wishes, only sons or only daughters to whomever He wishes and deprive totally of this Ni’math from whomever He wishes. Hence showing displeasure upon this gift and wish of Allah is similar to showing objection upon His power, and, is also an act of severe transgression, of which abstinence is vital. Therefore it is imperative for the household of the questioner as well, to refrain from using such words.
Having said so, it is a natural act to desire for sons, and making Dua for same is not prohibited, rather it is undoubtedly correct and permissible. In this connection the following Amal too is from among the experienced implementations and there is no harm as per the Shari’a in using this. Along with this, it is of paramount importance to plead thoroughly in the presence of the Benevolent Rabb and it is strongly hoped that the Most Merciful Rabb would heed to the plead of the questioner and bless him with this Ni’math as well.
The Amal is;
Before the completion of 3 months of fetus, write down the following Ayath with saffron and rose on a thin deer’s skin.
اللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ مَا تَحْمِلُ كُلُّ أُنثَىٰ وَمَا تَغِيضُ الْأَرْحَامُ وَمَا تَزْدَادُ ۖ وَكُلُّ شَيْءٍ عِندَهُ بِمِقْدَارٍ (8) عَالِمُ الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ الْكَبِيرُ الْمُتَعَالِ (9)۔
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Then write the following Ayath
يَا زَكَرِيَّا إِنَّا نُبَشِّرُكَ بِغُلَامٍ اسْمُهُ يَحْيَى لَمْ نَجْعَلْ لَهُ مِنْ قَبْلُ سَمِيًّا ﴿۷﴾۔
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Then write the following
بحق مریم و عیسی ابنا صالحا طویل العمر بحق محمد و آلہ
Then make this as a Tha’weez (amulet) and keep tied with the pregnant woman.
(A’maal e Qur’ani- page 202)
قا اللہ تعالی
لِّلَّهِ مُلْكُ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ ۚ يَخْلُقُ مَا يَشَاءُ ۚ يَهَبُ لِمَن يَشَاءُ إِنَاثًا وَيَهَبُ لِمَن يَشَاءُ الذُّكُورَ (49) أَوْ يُزَوِّجُهُمْ ذُكْرَانًا وَإِنَاثًا ۖ وَيَجْعَلُ مَن يَشَاءُ عَقِيمًا ۚ إِنَّهُ عَلِيمٌ قَدِيرٌ (50)۔
Allah knows best.
Khalid Mahmud
Darul Iftha, Jamia Binoria
20 Sha’ban 1428