I have a cousin sister who had been happily married for last 12 years with their 2 kids. From last 8 months he was distant from her, he would get agitated by her, would at times push her in anger or even the kids. At times he would be normal. And his mother would interfere stating that ,” my son is tired why do you always bother him, let him rest”. The husband would stay tired and moody and started to be isolated and really quiet. One day he really burst out saying he feels suffocated, he hit himself on the wall, while my sister and her parents tried to save him, he was hurt on his fingers. He then called his parents claiming that they are trying to kill him.&nbs p; Since then a lot of speculation had been going around. It has been 6 months he and his family has no contact with my sister , they tried to have the kids over couple of times for few hours.. My sister’s family have been trying to hope for mediation and to talk with that family, however they have totally disconnected. My sister went to a Exorcist or Aamil , and found out her mother-in law has been doing powerful black magic on her husband to turn him against her , for her own advantage. The mother in law has been mixing things in food , therefore she feeds him every day and the husband is becoming more and more unstable and has no feelings for the wife. The Exorcists try to rukayyah however since she is not able to enter that house and feed him the materials to be healed or cured, it has become a challenge. Is there any suggestions you have so the person can be healed and cured and return back to family.. Please advise it has become an helpless situation. Additionally, couple of weeks ago when my sister went to meet him, in the absence of his mother, he was standing on the couch for 4 hours, 3 people were trying to hold him back as he was coming to hit her. He loses all senses when she comes near, cannot hear anything to do with her. They were really happy couple, this is all sudden change. please advise.
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
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