Answer
(Fatwa: 998/D=151/K=1432)
(1) The prevalent custom of dowry is non-Islamic. It involves pomp and show along with other evils. It is haram to demand it. Hence this practice of dowry should be stopped. But, it is not haram for daughter and son-in-law to take that gifts which the parents give to them willingly in love, rather it is allowable to accept it. However, one should avoid following the custom in taking and giving the same i.e. it should not be considered necessary to give the goods with nikah. However, it is allowed for the girl to take jewelleries etc and she shall become its owner. But, the parents should note that due to it her right of inheritance will not come to an end. (2) The person shall be owner of what he was given. (3) The boy shall be owner of the things. It is allowed for him to take it provided he has not demanded the same and has avoided following the custom.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband