Assalaamualaikum,
My husband and I have gone through many hurdles in our marriage. Even law enforcement was involved. I left him because his abuse got very bad with me. But now I am reconsidering it for the sake of our baby and as my husband is asking to forgive him second time. I am thinking to give our marriage another chance for the sake of Allah, that we don’t break our family apart because every child needs both mother’s and father’s love equally. I love him so much so does he too, but don’t know what happens suddenly and he becomes very aggressive towards me. He blames me that my talking makes him very upset because when I get upset with him I may say things like that he failed to fullfil my rights and the rights of our child,e.g., supporting us financially and that he wasn’t present to take his responsibility. These things make him very upset. Now so much had happened among both of us and we have cried and suffered a lot. I have decided not to say stuff in future that makes him upset, just be quiet when I get upset with him. Right now we are living separately and he wants me to be back with him asap as he claims to miss me and our baby. Now my husbamd has a house for us to live together and he is doing fine to take care of his responsibility as a husband and a father. I am little scared of him and wanted to know any du’aa or islmaic ruling. I am making many du’aas to Allah to guide me in this decision. We both had done Isthikarah before marriage.
الجواب وباللہ التوفیق
Please read daily , either do after Fajr for 40 days or after Ishaa for 40 days, sitting with one mindedness: 7, 7 times Surah Fatihah, Aayat ul Kursi, Surah Kaafiroon, Surah Ikhlaas, Surah Falaq, and Surah Naas, and 786 times , and make Du’aa to Allaah ‘Azza wa Jal. After reading blow on water and drink yourself and have your husband drink it. Furthermore, read daily at any time 70 times Durood Shareef. Inshaa Allaah Al ‘Azeez these problems will be solved.