Can a son give money to his parents to perform Hajj, but son has not performed Hajj yet. 3) I have heard from people that a girl can marry when she gets maturity (physically), what about mental maturity. I want to marry my cousin, physically she is strong with age of 18 but her parents say “she is still a kid we’ll think after about 2 years”. I am 26 and really want to marry her soon, (as she is physically mature), within a year. My parents talked to her parents but they still delaying to reply. I don’t know what to do, can u give advise, plz.I have heard from people that a girl can marry when she gets maturity (physically), what about mental maturity. I want to marry my cousin, physically she is strong with age of 18 but her parents say “she is still a kid we’ll think after about 2 years”. I am 26 and really want to marry her soon, (as she is physically mature), within a year. My parents talked to her parents but they still delaying to reply. I don’t know what to do, can u give advise, plz. May Allah give you more knowledge and broader vision. Jazakallah May Allah give you more knowledge and broader vision. Jazakallah
According to Shariah, it is permissible for the son to give money to parents to perform hajj even though he himself did not perform hajj. In fact, if he does so he will be rewarded for taking care of his parents and supporting them.
It is appropriate to marry when the girl reaches the age of puberty. However, it is important that the girl knows how to conduct herself with her husband and fellow members of society. A young girl generally starts learning the art of socialising at this age from her parents. This learning curve in the life of that young girl creates that mental maturity which is important when considering marriage. Many marriages break because one or both of the spouses are not mature enough to handle the challenges and demands of marriage.
Therefore, if you are prepared to wait for two years then you may do so. Otherwise explain the need to marry to your parents and take their guidance on the issue.
And Allah Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai