iam married since 4yr,i got 2 talaq, But after both talaq within 5 min he said sorry and we had relation.when i was 8th month pregnant had gone to visit my husband who is staying abroad the day i arrived we both were fasting (ramdhaan).My husband becomes very hot tempered when he fast.I was also in bad state due to travelling in that state he gave me 3rd talaq thn after some time he said sorry then he kissed and after breaking fast he had relation saying that he didnot give 3 talaq.Next day i came to my mother place during my delivery he told me lie that he asked some scholar thay said we are not divorce so i went back to my husband afte my daughter was 3month old.Now iam again pregnant for second time but recently i read many question regarding the divorce iam confuse regarding my divorce will u please let me know that whether iam divorced or still married . i love my hubby too much … what will happen to my children if iam divorce i just cant think staying without children ..hope so u will reply soon.
At the outset, it is important to understand and firmly believe that we are the slaves of Allah. Our responsibility is submission to Allah and His orders as explained to us by Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam). We have to express our obedience to Allah Ta’ala in every walk of our life.
It does not behove us to do as we wish and against the orders of Allah Ta’ala. It is obvious that expressing submission requires us to go against our desires. In brief, it requires sacrifice, for which there are great rewards in store for us in the hereafter. Reverting to your matter, kindly keep our advise in mind while you read our ruling.
If your husband issued you three divorces on the three different instances, that constitutes a Talaaq-e-Mughalladha (permanently irrevocable divorce). It is not permissible for you to live together with your former husband. We appreciate that you love your former husband, but precedence must be given to fulfilling the order of Allah. It is now Haraam (strictly prohibited) for you to live with your former husband. You are bound by the Shari?ah to separate from him immediately. As regards your children, they may live with you. It is the father’s responsibility to provide maintenance for them.
Sister, we advise you to bring the courage and obey the order of Allah. The difficulties that you may experience in doing that will not go unnoticed by Allah. You will be greatly rewarded for your sacrifices. Remember, we will die one day with our worldly love and passion and be subjected to accountability in the court of Allah.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai