Person having MPD has more than one personality ruling him. He dosent remember the other personalities but they remember him and discuss him. Could it be the work of Jinns?
Maashaa Allah, your query indicates a yearning to try and follow Deen correctly. May Allah Ta’ala make the path to Allah Ta’ala easy and successful.
Yes, it is a sin to court / date before Nikah. This leads to adultery of the eyes, hands, heart and finally the actual act. The effect of the sin has also often been on the marriage ? that after a short term beautiful courtship ? the marriage is a rocky road with many upheavals.
An alternate suggestion which many youth are option for is a very simple Nikah ? courting thereafter which is permissible and finally ?Rookhsati? when the girl goes away from her family to her marital home. Instead of having a big function at Nikah, you would rather a nice Walima.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Sister Amatullah
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