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My wife is not religious…should i make dis clear to her that if she does not try to change herself then i will leave her?

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Salam Alykum! Please help me to make my decision I would like to ask what can i do according to the Quran and Hadith? I live in europe and would like to spend rest of my life according to the Quran and Sunnah of our Prophet Peace be Upon Him. My wife is not religious. she does not pray namaz, does not wear the scarf and makes sure she wear nice clothes when she goes out and her hair style is good. I have tried to teach her but no luck. Sometime i just think to end the marriage and Allah will help me to find a better wife. But then i start thinking again as this is my 2nd marriage and have 3 kids as well. I am 30 year old. Should i make this very clear to her that if she does not try to change herself then i will leave her? and do so if she does not try? I am really confused and don’t know what to do? Jazak Allah Khairen

Answer

The Qur’aan has shown us the procedure when dealing with our wives, a)
Advice, b) If this fails, then separation from their beds and if this fails,
c) a light form of chastisement.

As far as possible, do not end the marriage. Continue making Du’aa for her
and advise her as well. Allow her to wear nice clothes, etc. but within the
home or under the cloak when she goes out. Be considerate and understanding
but at the same time, do not let up in your efforts. Do not threaten her
with divorce as with would have a negative effect.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
FATWA DEPT.

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