Answered by: Maulana Imran Mughal
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
I would like to know if putting a 12-inch marble gravestone with the deceased name, and date of birth is permissible in Islam? Some scholars say it is impermissible and bidah. While others saying a small marble headstone is allowed. Please, can you clarify this for me? Jazakumullahu khairan.
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Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaatuh
It is permissible to place a gravestone above the grave for identification purposes.Anything extra should be avoided.
This is due to the hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him) where he placed a stone on the grave of Uthman bin Math’un (may Allah be pleased with him) and he said: “I am marking my brother’s grave with it, and I shall bury beside him those of my family who die.”
Only Allah Ta’ala knows best
Written by Maulana Imran Mughal
Checked and approved by Ustadha Sabrina al-Faarsiyyah
Darul Ifta Birmingham
 Ibn Abidin, Ar-Radd al-Muhtar Ala Ad-Durr al-Mukhtar (Riyadh: Dar Alam al-Kutub, 2003), 3:144.
 Sunan Abu Dawud Hadith 3206.
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