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Help In Making a Decision

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Quickly i will tell you my story 3 ways….i need to select only one way…. i am not relying on friends, family or relatives… as they have their own interests.

I dont know where to go….thats why i come here.

1- there’s a lady who wants to get married with me, she is not beautiful and she has 1 kid….my family wants me to get married with her…as she is BRITISH citizen…to get settle down . I dont like her and dont want to get married for visa.

2- I am thinking to go back Pakistan and have no one left there…. but I trust on ALLAH as HE had promise to give Rizq to every living creature.

3- Personally, i want to go on Tableegh….learn and become islamic Aalim course..

I want to spend my life jn the way of Islam…..but my Mother not allowing me to go on tableegh.


Question is can you help me Please in selecting any one way for me…please!!!


In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

If all three options are not suitable or practical, you may consider a fourth option. Remain in Britain and search for a wife of your choice. If need be, make compromise in your choice. Continue making du’aa to Allah and make decisions based on Mushwara and Istikharah. 

May Allah guide you to whatever is best for you in His knowledge.  

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Ahmad Jafari

Student Darul Iftaa
Atlanta, Georgia, USA

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

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