My friend is an ortho-surgeon working in Jeddah has a problem, his wife is also a doctor working and they have been married for 13 years and have 4 children, the eldest daughter is 12 years. The problem is that the wife accuses her husband that he spends all his money on his brothers and sisters, and doesn’t care. So she is trying to spend the whole of husbands pay and hardly saves, her earnings are safe and there is no information to her husband as she says it his her money. She doesnt care about her In-laws and uses foul language. When they visit Hyderabad she stays with her brother/sister, and does not stay for more than a day with in-laws. Their marriage is about to break, what to do?
If a woman does not want to spend on herself in those things for which the husband is responsible than this is her right. The husband has no right to say if you are earning than you should spend on yourself but he can say that with regards to the expenses that fall out of his responsibility. So, in conclusion, Man has no right over his wife’s money just as she has no right over his money except in things he is responsible for her.