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How can I help my wife who is hurt by my mother’s words and actions?

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I am married from last 2 years now and have no baby yet, willingly. The day we have got married my mother has got some or the other problem. We live in a two bedroom apt. I know my mother and wife’s nature, both of them love each other but my mother does not know what to say and when to say. All family members including my wife have tried to make her understand that such things do not leave good impression so should not be doing this but she does not understands this and keep on repeating the same things (e.g., taunt etc). I know place given to mother in Islam that is why most of the time I keep my calm and make my wife understand the situation. Ammi has been hurting my wife for last 2 years knowingly or unknowingly but now the situation is that my wife just cries and getting so week which is not digestible for me and I do not know what to do. Please do not advise to make ammi understand because we have done in all possible ways without success. Please pray for us, if possible tell me something to recite.


(Fatwa: 561/345/L=1434)

This attitude of your mother is really sad. If it is possible, start the reading out “Fazail Amal” and “Muntakhab Ahadith” at your home. In-shaAllah, all problems shall be solved with its blessings.

Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best

Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband

This answer was collected from the official ifta website of Darul Uloom Deoband in India.

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