Salaam mufti, plzz plzz help me, for allah sake. im having really really hard time. plz say my marriage life. im 19 years old gel, its been 2 years of my marriage . b4 me my husband were reaaly happy people will tell we r happys couples ever. but now Allah alone noe da best. my husband is acting so weird now adays. i live in Vancouver and my husband lives in london. my husband doesnt give da love, husband should, when ever he comes here ,he wakes up in da afternoon he goes with his friends house and comez next morning and does even spend time with me . he does not give me love respect and doesnt lisen to me. he tell guys im dis and that. last nite i was crying so much life if i was going threw hell. i dont noe wats going on b4 he was gud but now allah noe da best.i dont noe if we got naazer or sum1 is doing sumthing on us. mufti plz plz for allah sake. plz give me dua or wazifa to read, so my husband loves me and respect me give me respect and care about me. dua or wazifa so he doesnt go out with his friends and my marriage life fill with love and respect and with joys. some times my husband tells me he doesnt noe wat happens to him when he comes here, and he said he just want to out with his friends and spend time with them but not with me. alhamdulilah i pray he prays. and people tell me that im a gud wife but he does not realize that. ya allah plz help me in my marriage life. waithing for ur reply. jazakhallah khair.
Answer:
(Fatwa: 741/699=B/1430)
Recite ya Lateef ya Wadood (یا لطیف یا ودود) after Isha Salah taking 11 grains of black pepper and recite 11 time durood before and after the dua and have a thought of making the husband kind and affectionate. Having recited, blow on the black peppers, burn them in fire and pray Allah. In-sha-Allah, the husband will become loving and kind. Also, perform salah and other good deeds regularly.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband