good character

This answer was collected from MuftiOnline.co.za, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

Choosing a daughter in law

Answered by Muftionline.co.za

Q: My son is 20 years old and wants to get married. We know that we should not stop him. The girl however is not of good character. On the one hand we are taught to choose a spouse of good character and on the other hand we are taught to forgive and assist with… read more »

In search of an ideal husband

Answered by Askimam.org

Assalam o Alaikum Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh!! I’m a 24 year old muslimah and have been getting proposals for the marriage from different families. I was confused to what should I look for in my potential partner.From a hadith of bukhari I got that one should marry for these… read more »

Addressing a Non-Believer as “Kafir”

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asww iof this day an age saying the word kafir to a disbeliever is a offence, and all the hadith regarding calling someone kafir are regarding calling  fellow muslim. i would like to know what is the shari stance on calling a disbeliever a kafir with the intenion of abuse and degrading someone, as… read more »

How should one deal with the LGBTQ community?

Answered by Askimam.org

Asalam alaikum wr wb Mufti sahab These days we come across people of LGBTTQQIAAP (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, transsexual, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual, ally, pansexual) community. And, I guess there are some muslims too who belong to this community. Some might tend to say we born like this, whats our fault (also, people from… read more »

Is my Nikah valid?

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– [ ] I have got married to my first cousin(my fathers sisters daughter) since 2 months. Relatives where invited for the marriage from both sides. Girls father was expired when she is small and her fathers younger brother got married to girls mother, so he is now the guardian for her family. The marriage… read more »

Can I live with an impotent Husband?

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assalamualikum I married a man whom i thought to be religious.However after marriage i realised hes impotent. However he still is punctual in prayers and has good character. He even apologized me for being impotent. He also mentioned me the reasons for his impotence which is excessive masturbation alogn with watching… read more »

Avoiding a Muslim

Answered by Askimam.org

Assalaamu alaykum dear Shaykh.  I pray you are well.  My question is related to an issue which I have had for over 10 years with a brother in my local masjid.  He is a very nice brother with good character. He gets on very well with all the congregation. We also take… read more »

How do I deal with my Mother-In-Law?

Answered by Askimam.org

Assalam o Alikum Following are the detail of some of the issues which I am facing. I am requesting you to please look into these issues from insight. I came to live in USA after my marriage 6 months ago,Since the beginning of my marriage my mother in law have so much objections whenever… read more »