|Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem
Al Jawaab Billahit-Tawfeeq
Allah (SWT) is the Creator and Destiner. We have no doubt in that. Allah (SWT) also wills things to happen at the best time even if this may be out of sphere of understanding. Therefore, a delay in you getting married, is part of Allah (SWT)’s plan which we cannot question. It is a known fact that communities sometimes do not understand this and may make one feel inferior and despondent. However Allah (SWT) knows best. From your description of the situation, it seems as if you are needed to assist your parents, in particular your father. Hence, marriage will come when Allah (SWT) deems it appropriate. Please do not ever lose hope as Allah (SWT) will make all things possible.
It is indeed commendable that you have not broken the laws of the Shariah in this regard and that you have waited patiently for Allah (SWT) to send you your partner. As your father cannot assist in this matter, it is advisable that maybe your uncles or any other mahram try and arrange for a suitor. If this is not possible then maybe you could speak to the local Imaam or Ulama of your area.
Also turn to Allah (SWT) in abundance and Insha Allah your duas will be answered.
And Allah knows best
Muftisays ‘Aalimah ID