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Girl’s family sending a proposal to the boy

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Q: I have a question regarding sending a marriage proposal. In Islam, does the marriage proposal have to come from the boy’s party or can the girl’s family send a proposal to the boy?

Bismillaah

A:ย Generally, the boy’s family sends the proposal for the girl. However, if the girl’s family offers to marry their daughter to the boy, it is permissible. Nabi Shu’aib (Alayhis Salaam) proposed to marry one of his daughters to Nabi Moosa (Alayhis Salaam).

And Allah Ta’ala (ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุชุนุงู„ู‰) knows best.

ู‚ุงู„ูŽ ุฅูู†ู‘ู‰ ุฃูุฑูŠุฏู ุฃูŽู† ุฃูู†ูƒูุญูŽูƒูŽ ุฅูุญุฏูŽู‰ ุงุจู†ูŽุชูŽู‰ู‘ูŽ ู‡ู€ูฐุชูŽูŠู†ู ุนูŽู„ู‰ูฐ ุฃูŽู† ุชูŽุฃุฌูุฑูŽู†ู‰ ุซูŽู…ู€ูฐู†ูู‰ูŽ ุญูุฌูŽุฌู ููŽุฅูู† ุฃูŽุชู…ูŽู…ุชูŽ ุนูŽุดุฑู‹ุง ููŽู…ูู† ุนูู†ุฏููƒูŽ ูˆูŽู…ุง ุฃูุฑูŠุฏู ุฃูŽู† ุฃูŽุดูู‚ู‘ูŽ ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠูƒูŽ ุณูŽุชูŽุฌูุฏูู†ู‰ ุฅูู† ุดุงุกูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู€ู‡ู ู…ูู†ูŽ ุงู„ุตู‘ู€ูฐู„ูุญูŠู†ูŽ ๏ดฟุงู„ู‚ุตุต: ูขูง๏ดพ

(ูˆูŠู†ุนู‚ุฏ) ู…ุชู„ุจุณุง (ุจุฅูŠุฌุงุจ) ู…ู† ุฃุญุฏู‡ู…ุง (ูˆู‚ุจูˆู„) ู…ู† ุงู„ุขุฎุฑ (ูˆุถุนุง ู„ู„ู…ุถูŠ) ู„ุฃู† ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ ุฃุฏู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุชุญู‚ูŠู‚ (ูƒุฒูˆุฌุช) ู†ูุณูŠ ุฃูˆ ุจู†ุชูŠ ุฃูˆ ู…ูˆูƒู„ุชูŠ ู…ู†ูƒ (ูˆ) ูŠู‚ูˆู„ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑ (ุชุฒูˆุฌุช)

ู‚ุงู„ ุงู„ุดุงู…ูŠ: (ู‚ูˆู„ู‡: ู…ู† ุฃุญุฏู‡ู…ุง) ุฃุดุงุฑ ุฅู„ู‰ ุฃู† ุงู„ู…ุชู‚ุฏู… ู…ู† ูƒู„ุงู… ุงู„ุนุงู‚ุฏูŠู† ุฅูŠุฌุงุจ ุณูˆุงุก ูƒุงู† ุงู„ู…ุชู‚ุฏู… ูƒู„ุงู… ุงู„ุฒูˆุฌุŒ ุฃูˆ ูƒู„ุงู… ุงู„ุฒูˆุฌุฉ ูˆุงู„ู…ุชุฃุฎุฑ ู‚ุจูˆู„ ุญ ุนู† ุงู„ู…ู†ุญ ูู„ุง ูŠุชุตูˆุฑ ุชู‚ุฏูŠู… ุงู„ู‚ุจูˆู„ุŒ ูู‚ูˆู„ู‡: ุชุฒูˆุฌุช ุงุจู†ุชูƒ ุฅูŠุฌุงุจ ูˆู‚ูˆู„ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑ ุฒูˆุฌุชูƒู‡ุง ู‚ุจูˆู„ ุฎู„ุงูุง ู„ู…ู† ู‚ุงู„ ุฅู†ู‡ ู…ู† ุชู‚ุฏูŠู… ุงู„ู‚ุจูˆู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฅูŠุฌุงุจ ูˆุชู…ุงู… ุชุญู‚ูŠู‚ู‡ ููŠ ุงู„ูุชุญ (ุฑุฏ ุงู„ู…ุญุชุงุฑ 3/9)

ู‚ุงู„ ุงู„ู†ูƒุงุญ ูŠู†ุนู‚ุฏ ุจุงู„ุฅูŠุฌุงุจ ูˆุงู„ู‚ุจูˆู„ ุจู„ูุธูŠู† ูŠุนุจุฑ ุจู‡ู…ุง ุนู† ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ ู„ุฃู† ุงู„ุตูŠุบุฉ ูˆุฅู† ูƒุงู†ุช ู„ู„ุฅุฎุจุงุฑ ูˆุถุนุง ูู‚ุฏ ุฌุนู„ุช ู„ู„ุฅู†ุดุงุก ุดุฑุนุง ุฏูุนุง ู„ู„ุญุงุฌุฉ ูˆูŠู†ุนู‚ุฏ ุจู„ูุธูŠู† ูŠุนุจุฑ ุจุฃุญุฏู‡ู…ุง ุนู† ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ ูˆุจุงู„ุขุฎุฑ ุนู† ุงู„ู…ุณุชู‚ุจู„ ู…ุซู„ ุฃู† ูŠู‚ูˆู„ ุฒูˆุฌู†ูŠ ููŠู‚ูˆู„ ุฒูˆุฌุชูƒ ู„ุฃู† ู‡ุฐุง ุชูˆูƒูŠู„ ุจุงู„ู†ูƒุงุญ ูˆุงู„ูˆุงุญุฏ ูŠุชูˆู„ู‰ ุทุฑููŠ ุงู„ู†ูƒุงุญ ุนู„ู‰ ู…ุง ู†ุจูŠู†ู‡ ุฅู† ุดุงุก ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุชุนุงู„ู‰ (ู‡ุฏุงูŠุฉ 2/305)

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from MuftiOnline.co.za, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

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