I am having a problem for a long time. When i do toilets such as urining and the big one, automatically ejaculation happens. It come out automatically during my toilet. Now, when i start my praying i did Wudhu and start to pray. In addition, Do i need to do Fardh Shower? Even when i do Fardh shower, still when i go toilet same thing happens. Sometimes it will not come out and sometimes it come out. So, Do i need to do Fardh shower? and if it happens, if i do Wudhu and pray, does it validiate my praying?
Another thing, I have done a terrible thing. I was fasting and one of my brothers is eating beside me and he is showing me he is eating intentionally. So, i did not comment a bad word. However, i did showed him a bad sign by jokingly. I did not do it by seriously. After that, he told my fast is not valid anymore. So, What you say about this? Does my fast still valid or what i should do?
Jazzak ALLAH Khairan
Wa’alaykum as Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,
Since the ejaculation is not happening due to lust, you do not have to make the obligatory Ghusl.
You did not partake of the food, so there is no reason for your fast to be broken.
And Allaah Ta’aala knows best
Ismail Moosa (Mufti)
This answer was collected from Fatwaa.com which is an excellent Q&A site managed by Mufti Ismail Moosa from South Africa. .