2-What if someone forces us to do a bad thing like stealing etc. and warns that if it wouldnt be done so he would kill him or her? 3-Will a deed be counted if we commit it by anybodys force e.g that sometime before my father use to force me to offer my prayers other wise i didnt had an intention so would i get its reward. 4-Once me and my other Shia friend came to my house so we played and enjoyed but when it came the time of prayer of Asr so i am alhamdolilah Sunni so i had to go to mosque so he became angry from me that why i left him alone and then he went to his house,I was very much confused that the rights of friends are also to be fullfilled but at the same side i was compelled by my religion Islam that i should pray at mosque so what to do now if i needed to welcome him again to my house or should i didnt ask him to come to my house ever.5-Doing fashion is it sin.6-What do Shariat says about our hairstyle how should it be my friends have big hairs are there prayers accepted.7-I have a problem with my urination and it is very fast and after every 1 or one and a half hour it is compulsory for me to go to bathroom which has created a problem for me as i cannot go always to bathroom so what to do and please tell me any islamic way to diagnose this problem please because i dont trust on doctors,Please tell me Duas also for diagnosing this
Your answers to your questions are as follows:
1. To follow the fashion of another culture like the west goes against the Shariah as the Prophet ((Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam)) said “Whosoever imitates a nation is of them.” If your fashion is according to the Shariah and you are not imitating another nation or culture then only it will be permissible..
2. According to the Shariah your action will be based according to your intention. Nabi (saw) said “Verily your deeds are judged by your intention….” So if you steal you may be punished by the law of the country but according to the shariah you would be judged by the intention.
3. To answer this question I refer you to the above mentioned Hadith that your deed is judged by your intention and being a pillar of Islam you have no excuse to leave your Salaah and your father is fulfilling his part of the Shariah which is “Order your children at the age of 7 and beat them at the age of ten.” Again you would be rewarded by your intention.
4. All praise be to Allah that you have put Allah before your friend and this the requirement of the Shariah that you put Allah and his Rasool (saw) before everything else. You need not keep your friend away from your home you may show him the correct path and invite him to the correct Deen. But be very careful there are differences between the Shia And the Ahl-Sunnah Refer to our reponces to the Shia.
5. Refer 1 above.
6. The size of your hair is not a condition for the acceptance of the Salaah but if you are unable to put on a hat for Salaah then the Hair style is not permissible or if you are following a fashion of another culture or nation.
7. You need to visit a doctor to find out what could be the cause like to rule out infections or even anxiety makes one visit the bathroom frequently once this is established there duas that one can Read For now you can make the Dua O Allah there is no ease except in that which you have made easy, and You make the difficulty,if You wish it easy .
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Shaykh Irshaad Amod
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