Mufti Sahib, can I use other parts besides (the vagina) of my wifes to ejaculate? For example, the breast, stomach, thighs etc?
Wa’alaykum as Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,
If the husband cannot suppress his desires and the woman is experiencing her periods then it is permissible for him to relieve himself using any part of the woman’s body above the navel and below the knee.
If she is not experiencing periods then the husband must relieve himself by intercourse and not by ‘using’ other parts of the body. If for some reason he cannot have intercourse and he cannot suppress his desires, then he is allowed to derive please from other parts of the woman’s body such as the thigh, stomach, etc. (Fataawa Mahmudiyah vol.12 pg.311) This obviously excludes the mouth and posterior, since oral and anal sex is not permissible.
And Allaah Ta’aala knows best
Ismail Moosa (Mufti)
(قوله كره) الظاهر أنها كراهة تنزيه؛ لأن ذلك بمنزلة ما لو أنزل بتفخيذ أو تبطين تأمل وقدمنا عن المعراج في باب مفسدات الصوم: يجوز أن يستمني بيد زوجته أو خادمته، وانظر ما كتبناه هناك (رد المحتار) (4/ 27)