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My husband gave me divorce in anger 100’s of time and than he use to say it didnt happened as i was in extreme anger. He wrote many times on text messages veribally on phone call also i have messages and recordings on this. he gave me written in Pakistan on stamp paper also and than throw that paper away i have copy of that also.
Now we are living in seperate countries over 1.5 year. I just want to confirm if my divorce is happened as i search it is as i know he use to have intention to divorce me. If my divorce is happened but not legal way he register can i do second nikah now. he said he will never give me divorce legally as i cant remarry again.
Please reply on my email.


Wa’alaykum as Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

All the divorces given are valid and binding. You are no more his wife. It makes no difference whether you are legally married or not.

You may marry another person in spite of not having a legal divorce. We advise you to seek legal advise, so that he cannot harm you further.

And Allaah Ta’aala knows best


Ismail Moosa (Mufti)


خوشی میں کوئی طلاق نہیں دیتاہے؛ بلکہ غصہ ہی میں طلاق دی جاتی ہے؛ لہٰذا جب آپ نے اپنی بیوی کو تین طلاقیں دی ہیں، توبیوی پر طلاق مغلظہ واقع ہوکر آپ کے اوپر وہ قطعی طور پر حرام ہوچکی ہے، آئندہ بغیر حلالہ کے اس کے ساتھ نکاح بھی درست نہیں ہے اور حلالہ کاطریقہ یہ ہے کہ وہ عدت گذار کر کسی دوسرے مرد سے نکاح کرے، پھر اس مرد کے ساتھ ہمبستری ہونے کے بعد وہ مرد طلاق دیدے اور پھر عدت بھی گذرجائے تو وہ بیوی آپ کے لئے حلال ہوسکتی ہے اور پھر آپ اس سے نکاح کرسکتے ہیں۔ (فتاوی قاسمیہ جلد١٥  صفحہ ٣٣٩،٣٤٦)

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