Is it permissible to kiss or lick wife’s private part while making love but before the intercourse.

The Islamic law teaches emphatically modesty and shamefulness in general without any particular concern of lawful or unlawful in this regard. Scholars do not consider this as sinful but they do consider it as immodest, the true nature of people would despise something like this. We should avoid it as much as possible.
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