Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani
Is an unmarried man who gets oral sex from his girlfriend is still considered a virgin?
Walaikum assalam,
Yes, he would still be considered a virgin.
However, sincere repentance is needed from this past sin. (Search for term on www.SunniPath.com for details.)
“Allah is more deserving of your sense of shame than people are,” the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) reminded us.
Faraz Rabbani.