Could you mention the reference for this?
Sayyiduna Abud Darda (radiyallahu ‘anhu) told his wife Ummud Darda, “If I become angry then try to please me. If you become angry I will [say things that will] please you. Were we not to act this way, how quickly would we be separated!”
Answer:
Imam Ibn Hibban (rahimahullah) has recorded this narration in his book ‘Rawdatul ‘Uqala.
(Rawdatul ‘Uqala, pg. 72, Tarikh Dimashq, vol. 70 pg. 152)
And Allah Ta’ala Knows best.
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