A Hadith against restricting the expenditure on one’s family

What is the authenticity of the following narration?

Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:

“The one who restricts the sustenance of his family, although he has the means to provide is not from us”

Answer:

Qadhi Al Quda’i (rahimahullah) has recorded this narration in Musnadush Shihab, with an extremely weak chain.

(Musnadush Shihab, vol. 2 pg. 205. Refer: Al Kamil, vol. 10 pg. 515, Lisanul Mizan, vol.8 pg. 445 -8464- and Fathul Wahhab of Ahmad Siddiq Al Ghumari, vol. 2 pg. 268)

Imam Daylami (rahimahullah) has recorded a similar narration via a narrator who has been declared as weak according to some Muhaddithun and very weak according to others.

(Musnadul Firdaws. Refer: Mizanul I’tidal, vol. 3 pg. 266 -6025-)

However numerous Hadiths and Verses of the Holy Quran have instructions to spend on one’s family. Allah Ta’ala says:

“The wealthy person should spend and pay maintenance according to his means. As for the one whose means are restricted, he should spend from what Allah has given him” [as much as he can afford]

(Surah Talaq, verse: 7)

Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:

“Your wives have a right over you that you provide sustenance and clothing for them kindly” [without being miserly]

(Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 1218)

And Allah Ta’ala Knows best

Answered by: Moulana Suhail Motala

Approved by: Moulana Muhammad Abasoomar

Checked by: Moulana Haroon Abasoomar

This answer was collected from HadithAnswers.com. The answers were either answered or checked by Moulana Haroon Abasoomar (rahimahullah) who was a Shaykhul Hadith in South Africa, or by his son, Moulana Muhammad Abasoomer (hafizahullah), who is a Hadith specialist. 

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