She foned her mother to pick her up,Her uncles came packed her bags and want to go with her, I said she’s not leaving, he assaults me and tells her to leave, I told him if he takes her 3 talaqs will be binding i did not tell her, he said you angry and come to her house tommorrow with your parents while talking to her another uncle came assaulted me and told he to run out, Can they Take her away My wife is 3 months pregnant Make DuaHer uncle that came used abusive language and was not aware of what I said I told him its fine remember that you took my wife away from with my child. Is this Talaaq valid because I knew they want to take her so I let her go Make Duaa Inshallah
You mention that you said to your uncle that if you take her, then she will be divorced thrice. If that uncle took her, then she will be divorced, regardless of whether she knew of it or not and regardless of whether you knew they were going to take her or not.
Talaaq is not a thing to play with and once uttered, the damage is done.
Your wife is now haraam for you and you cannot remarry her, unless she happens to get married to someone else and he consummates the marriage and then divorces her.
You should inform her of the divorce, so that she can begin her iddat.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai