الجواب حامدا و مصلیا
In the situation mentioned, it is not necessary to visit the Shamshan for Eesal e Sawab – ایصال ثواب – , rather it is impermissible too, since it resembles the Hindus. Therefore one should stay at his place and make arrangements to do as much as Ibadah, physical and financial, and do Eesal e Sawab for the deceased.
Allah knows best.
