I am really disturbed about an act that I have in performing since I was 13 and now I’m 14 and now I have started to go in jamat and stuff but after that when I come back I still do the same thing which is masturbating. Can you please give me some advice about how to stop this?
This is something that becomes habitual, in order to get rid of them you have to adopt certain disciplinary qualities in yourself. Like a person who is all collect, or cigarette addict there are different strategies and tactics to keep these people of such dangerous material. Similar strategies can be adopted in order to get rid of our bad actions. If the results of this habit are very dangerous, which is usually, shown after the marriage, demand begins to feel weak his limbs sense pain and the back begins to hurt at a person being us to become dispassionate about everything in life. The prophet peace be upon him has cursed people like this and for them there is a severe punishment in the hereafter a person should convince himself that this is a bad thing and constantly remind himself of that and prevent himself from watching bad movies or watching a content on the computer. It person also should never be free he should always busy himself with things. Some people have suggested that such people should take shower twice a day in the morning and in the evening and where it clean clothes because cleanliness also affects the way we think.
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