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She’s having menstrual problem. She menstruates in 3-months gap.

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Dear Mufti Sahab,

Assalamu’alaikum.

I am from India and I am a regular visitor of your website, it is very helpful to gain knowledge thru your website. May Allah grant you succes in both the Worlds, Aameen.

I got married last year February’12, we are leading a happiest and a peaceful marital life. My wife is physically good and we had a good sexual life but she’s having menstrual problem (problem having before marriage), she menstruates in 3months gap, then we have consulted to Gynaecologist and Dr. confirmed that she is having Poly cyst in both Ovaries and due to this her menses are abnormal and she’ll get late pregnancy. Her treatment is going on since 8 months but no changes. I am very much worried about her health and would like to seek your advice in this matter. How to remove Cyst? Please answer me on all queries.

Please suggest me some Du’as and Wazifaa’s, so that Allah bless us with pious children.

Was salaamu’alaikum

Answer

Answer:

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

We understand the difficult situation you and your wife are experiencing. May Allāh Ta’ālā grant your wife cure from her illness. Amīn.

The institution of marriage is one that joins together two individuals. It is a life-long partnership wherein the spouses assist one another with determination in times of both, happiness and difficulty. They share their joyous moments together as well as their hardships.

Our advice to you is that you encourage your wife during these trying times and show her your support. Express to her that you are pleased with her in whatever situation she may be. Let her not feel that her sickness is affecting your affection towards her in any way. With this attitude, you will reap the goodness of this world and the rewards of the Akhirah. Consider the following Hadīth:

أَكْمَلُ المُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا، وَخَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ (سنن الترمذى، بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي حَقِّ المَرْأَةِ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا)  

The best believer in Imān is one who displays the noblest of character. And the best among you are those who are best to their wives.” (Sunan al-Tirmidhī)

 

Furthermore, explain to your wife that Allāh Ta’ālā tests his creation with difficult conditions in order to elevate their status and worth. Difficulty is in fact a favor upon a believer from Allāh Ta’ālā. Sins are erased and lofty levels in Jannah are secured through enduring patience in the face of trying times.

The following are some Duās that you should recite for your wife’s cure as well as for pious children:

 

1.      Daily, address your wife reciting the following Duā 7 times:[1]

أَسْأَلُ اللَّهَ الْعَظِيمَ رَبَّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ أَنْ يَشْفِيَكَ (سنن أبى داود، بَابُ الدُّعَاءِ لِلْمَرِيضِ عِنْدَ الْعِيَادَةِ)

Transliteration: Assalullāhal Aʿdhīm Rabbal Aʿrshil Aʿdhīm An Yashfiyak

Translation: I beseech Allāh, the Great One and the Sustainer of the Great Throne that he grant you cure. (Sunan Abī Dāwūd)

 

2.      Concentrate upon the meaning of the following verse and recite at least once after every Salāh:

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا (سورة الفرقان، رقم الآية 74)

Our Sustainer, Grant us the coolness of our eyes from our spouses and children, and make us leaders of the pious.” (Qurān 25:74)

 

3.      On a daily basis, recite the following Duā abundantly. This Duā was recited by Hadhrat Mūsā Alaihissalām at the time of difficulty and Allāh Ta’ālā granted him ease shortly thereafter. The Duā is as follows:

                                                                                                                           

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ (سورة القصص، رقم الآية 24)

O My Rabb! Indeed I am needy of whatever good you bestow on me. (Qurān 28:24) 

 

After carrying out the above-mentioned A’māl, have belief that Allāh will do whatever is best for you and your wife. Be pleased with whatever Allāh Ta’ālā decrees for the both of you. In this is your success in this world as well as in the Hereafter.

 

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Abdul Azīm bin Abdur Rahman,
Student Darul Iftaa
U.S.A.

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

 

 

Clarification

 

The Darul Iftaa has received queries regarding Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb’s teaching and affiliation with Madrassah In’aamiyya, Camperdown. The confusion is probably due to the previous Fatawaa and Google searches of Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb issued under the name of Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In’aamiyyah, Camperdown.

 

Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb has resigned from Madrassah In’aamiyya two years ago and has no affiliation with Madrassah In’aamiyya, Camperdown.

 

Mufti Saheb has established the Darul Iftaa in Durban that facilitates for post-Ulama courses and training Mufti’s. He teaches Hadeeth at Darul Uloom Nu’maniyyah.

 

Email: darululoomnumaniyyah@gmail.com or

arkhanar@telkomsa.net

 

 


[1]  حَدَّثَنَا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ أَبُو خَالِدٍ، عَنِ الْمِنْهَالِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: ” مَنْ عَادَ مَرِيضًا، لَمْ يَحْضُرْ أَجَلُهُ فَقَالَ عِنْدَهُ سَبْعَ مِرَارٍ: أَسْأَلُ اللَّهَ الْعَظِيمَ رَبَّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ أَنْ يَشْفِيَكَ، إِلَّا عَافَاهُ اللَّهُ مِنْ ذَلِكَ الْمَرَضِ (سنن أبى داود، بَابُ الدُّعَاءِ لِلْمَرِيضِ عِنْدَ الْعِيَادَةِ)

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