Premarital communication and relationship

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Q: I am a new Muslim and would like to get married to a guy who loves me but recently things have changed towards me. I feel he doesn’t care about me like before and I feel as though someone has done something to him after he came back from his home. I have had black magic done to me before and I know it has driven men away from me who have asked my hand in marriage and I am scared it will happen again. So please give a wazifa to pray to make him mine and him to love me like before. When I tell him I feel he has changed, he says he thinks it’s in my head. So I go quiet. So please help me to  believe the man who loves me and I want him as my husband the halaal way.


A: All forms of premarital communication and relationship is haraam and impermissible. You should immediately end up this communication and sincerely repent to Allah Ta’ala.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

This answer was collected from, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Ta’leemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa.

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