assalamu alaikum imam,
my name is afraz and i am 19 years old age..i am working here in sri lanka….i have a problem to ask you which is working in my mind these days ago…..i have 2 sisters and 2 brothers….i have 2 sisters means one of my sister is my own mothers daughter and the other sister was brought to my home when she was small and we used to called her sister…..we treat her as our own sister and she doesn’t know about that incident….she thinks i am er own brother and this is her real family….
and my problem is,now she have grown up and she is 13 years old……she used to sleep with me with my bed sometimes and last few days i noticed she is rude at me….she falling on my body….when i am sleeping she touches my cock and making me horny..this making me feel horny too then i also repeated this thing at her..i touched her breasts,vagina and i sucked her breasts too…i cant control myself..i know it is bad and what i am doing…i am very helpless now…i cant do anything when she slowly pts her hand insde my trouser and make me horny….
what should i do?is this wrong?what is the punishment for this in islam?expain me….
Assalāmu `alaikum Warahmatullāhi Wabrakatuh,
At the outset you should thank Allah for guiding you to ask us this question. Allah Ta’ala want to guide you and keep you away from bad, evil and sinful acts.
It is completely haram (strictly prohibited) for you and the girl to sleep together in one bed. The dirty and filthy acts referred to are haram and major sin. Those sins incur the wrath and anger of Allah.
You are now 19 years old. You are baligh. The girl is 13 years old and in all probability she too must be baligh. What if the Shaytan mislead both of you and the fondling etc which are haram lead to intercourse?
What if the girl falls pregnant? Will you be happy? Will she be happy?
Will you bear all the burden and embarrassment that comes along with that? Will she be able to bear all the embarrassment?
You should seriously consider confiding in your mother or father and tell them what has transpired. They will have insight and take the necessary steps to separate your’ll.
Do remember that you have another brother. The “sister” may also make advancements to him. You need to alert your parents and stop this evil act immediately before you it gets any worse.
Also make tawba and repent to Allah Ta’ala. You should immediately reprimand the “sister” and warn her you’ll be telling your parents about her evil actions. This will help her to stop the wrong and protect her chastity.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best,
Muftī Ebrahim Desai
35 Candella Rd, Durban, South Africa