dear imam my question is im married man but she not with me i went back home we got married and i came back to canada shes in pakistan sometimes we do chating online and we see each other nude isit sin or not ? and i got one more question to ask are we allowed to lick each other private parts?
In the name of Allāh, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalāmu ῾alaykum wa Rahmatullāhi Wabarakātuh
1) As a principle, to see one’s spouse naked is permissible. However, due to the great distance between the two of you (knowing that physical contact is impossible), it would be advisable not to view each other naked as this will lead to arousal, which will then create the urge to masturbate and masturbation is prohibited.[1]
(Radul Muhtār)
2) Regarding licking the private part of a spouse or oral sex; one should bear in mind that Allāh Ta ̒āla has created the mouth as a favour to man for Allāh’s remembrance. Thus, the mouth is used to eat, make Thikr and reciting the Holy Qurān. These are all pure actions. To use the mouth for a lowly act, such as licking a private part, is inappropriate and should not be practiced.[2]
(Hindiyah vol.5 pg. 372 Rashidiyah)
And Allāh Ta῾āla Knows Best
Wassalāmu ῾alaykum
Ml. Zakariyya bin Ahmed,
Student Dārul Iftā
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Dārul Iftā, Madrasah In῾āmiyyah