assalamalaikum, i hope i get to ask my questions this time…i have been trying 4 so long. I am 13 and i hav sum things i wanna b clear w/…one of them is… I had a dream once, wen i was little..i was in Makkah nd then there was a mountain beside the kaaba..nd i was sitting on the mountain, hill…nd wen i looked over the hill i saw water nd the other side was ppl around the kaaba…wat dos this mean..it was so wierd my second question is…i dont wanna comit gunas…buh now that it is my growing age of course i wanna go try new things…kissing nd all…so how do i tell my parents taht i wanna get married young??? third- am i allowed to talkl to guys on the fone to help them as in..make them follow the right path…i help a lot of ppl w/ good deeds..so many ppl come to me eveyrday w/ ther problems nd im the one that makes dicisions 4 em…am i allowed to talk to em if im jus tryin ot help??? this is wnough 4 now…jazakallah 4 answerin my questions…
1. You should make Du’aa that Allah Ta’ala takes you to the blessed lands of Makkah and Madinah. Once you are there, you should utilise your time profitably in Ibaadah (worship) and supplicating to Allah.
2. You should inform your parents of your intentions and get their guidance on the matter. Marriage is a major step in one’s life and if it is not done correctly, the consequences could be disastrous. Secondly, you should understand that marriage is not only enjoying oneself, but is coupled with with great responsibility. Therefore, you should ask yourself if you are prepared to shoulder all these responsibilities.
3. It is Haraam (prohibited) to have any communication with the opposite gender. This is the plot of Shaytaan, he gets his Haraam done via actions which seem to be good and beneficial. Nabi [sallallaahu Alayhi wasallam] said, ‘When a strange man and women are together, Shaytaan is the third’. Therefore, you should be cautious and refer them to another reliable person of the same gender.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai