My husband always hates me in all he says others women r good I am bad by god’s grace I am good house wife and house work and mother some time I do out side work also as he says still he hates me, he is heart patient doc told him not to life heavy weights so I do for him I always tell him to take rest I am there to work I want only him to be healthy so that we can make our daughter’s future life together, we being parents we have to live healthy because of our child she needs us so pls let us be understanding to each other lets discuss were we are wrong and correct but he says only I am wrong not he always says he is right so he doesn’t listen to me he hates me I am sad pls help me tell me what to do I am ready to do so that I can make my child’s life good for future
Jazkallah for the question you have sent to the institute. You write about the difficulties in your relationship with your husband.
I would like to know if your husband’s attitude towards you has been like this always or is it since he has had his heart problem only? Is your husband able to go out to work and is he earning the same amount as he did before he became ill? I am also wondering if his medication is causing him to become depressed and perhaps if this is the reason why he is taking out his frustration and anger out on you. Have you discussed his attitude with his doctor? If you have not done so, do you think you could do so soon?
His illness and his attitude must be causing a strain on you and it must be difficult for you to cope with it. May Allah Ta’ala soften your hearts towards each other, bring you closer together and may Allah Ta’ala reward you abundantly for your sabr and perseverance.
Please respond to my questions above so that we can explore your problem further.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Sister Fadila
SOCIAL DEPT.
CHECKED AND APPROVED: Mufti Ebrahim Desai