Is it Permissable for a husband to use things APART from the body parts – hands or fingers, on his wife during foreplay, esp if she is difficult to please.

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– provided they read the relevant supplication before starting any intimacy between themselves.

Answer:

It is permissible.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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