Dear Mufti Sahab,
Assalamualikum wa Rahmatullahi Wabarkatuhu!
May Allah accept the important work that are doing.
I am married for 3 years and I have a kid now and a daughter is expected in the next few weeks Inshallah. My wife is from the Ahle-hadeeth family, in the first year of my marriage I used to have many wasawis or ill thoughts that shall I divorce her? and when I was alone sometimes I used to say these wasawis loudly to myself that "biwi to 3 talaq dedon?" or "shall I leave her?", immediately i used to say aloud to myself that I cannot leave her!!!! But I will teach her tabligh instead!! so these wasawis keep running in my mind and sometimes i had to fight myself and I did not have any intention to leave her and I love her so much. Please advice.
بسم اللہ الرحمن الرحیم
الجواب وباللہ التوفیق
It is not right to ask for “Khulaa” merely on the basis of your husband’s affiliation with Jamaat-e-Ahl-e-Hadith. Don't pay any attention to those thoughts.
Humbly, review those differences with your husband and address any doubts he has, after finding out answers from Ahl-e-Haqq and knowledgeable Ulema. Keep trying to avoid yourself being misled theoretically and intellectually.
فقط واللہ اعلم واتم