Since last 14 months, my wife’s attitude/behaviour has completely changed towards me and she refuses to have sex with me. I am frustrated due to lack of physical intimacy with her. She has become very rude and arrogant, very opposite to her actual nature which was soft, polite and humble. Please help and provide your valuable guidance to win back my wife’s love again.
Answer
(Fatwa: 478/370/D=1434)
(1) Recite the following dua after Fajr and Asr salah 11-11 times:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَاماً.
(2) There is an amal written in Bahishti Zewar part 9, p. 91 regarding the love of spouses. Do the same as well as behave your wife with politeness and good character.
(3) And if there is changing in her mode due to doing the business herself then you should consider over it. It is not good to depend on the income of wife, it creates many evils. Try to create your own source of income so that you are not under the burden of your wife’s income and so that your wife does not become rude and arrogant.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband