I need your help in the subject matter in which i am going to narrate.please provide me the detail explanation. Three months before i met a girl in net.We both fall in love with eachother instantly.She is not from my place.But i call her regularly day and night.She has already toled about me to her parents and i have also toled in my home.But due to indispensable happenenings, i have asked some amount time for marraige.The extent of love is so much that we are considering both ourselves as husband and wife. We have crossed ourselves every Pameters. Evrything has happened between both of us as what happens between a wife and husband.BUT please note a point ,what has happened is only on PHONE.i havent met her till now. Is what we are doing according to islam unlawfull.As we are not doing the things physically,its just the mental state of mind. Is it really unlawfull according to islam.If we are really commiting sin please give a valid reason.We both are going to show our face to ALLAH and HIS RASOOL in akhirat.Please respond immediately.We are waiting for your reply. Mufti sahab please remember what we are doing is only on PHONE.I havent met her till now.
Answer:
(Fatwa: 1735/1531=B)
The mental profligacy is also not right on phones. This leads to unnecessary talks, fun and sensual arousal with a strange, and in case of transgression it results in to wrongdoings and adultery. Therefore, all the means that arouse sensual feelings have been regarded unlawful. Stop this entertainment and try to lead a clean and pure life.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband