I am 23 years old and have been the victim of bad society which has costed me my Faith and my health. I am masturbating from last 15 years like i have started doing it at the age when i didn?t know what exactly i was doing and till rite now i am practicing it continuously and with intense frequency everyday. I find it difficult to write that i indulge in illicit physical relations with a Christian girl. every time i had intercourse i used to ask my Lord for forgiveness and promise Him that i wont do it again but whenever came across that girl i simply could not resist myself and commit that major sin again and again. It happened alot of times. I committed this major sin even when i was fasting. The girl got married and this thing even didn?t stop after her marriage like i was still in physical relations with that Christian girl after her marriage and still i find it difficult to control myself whenever i came across her. I am ashamed of being called a Muslim and i know for sure that my Allah is really annoyed with me after all i am breaking my promise again and again. I wonder how should i get out of this devil act. Unfortunately during all this shameful moments of my life i discovered that i am suffering from severe premature ejaculation problem, improper erection and impotence too. Please help me i have lost my religion my health. I need a way out of all this miserable life and is there any cures to all the sexual problems I mentioned earlier?
You have a major problem. You have committed major sins and have caused
damage to your Imaan and health. Now that you have realised the wrong and
intend reforming yourself, that is encouraging.
Allah loves the sincere ones. It is true that Allah gets angry with those
that are sinful but Allah gets more happy with a person who sincerely
repent. First and foremost, be sincere. Nobody can help you if you are not
sincere. The intention to reform is the driving force behind reformation.
All that is needed after sincere intention is guidance. If a lost traveller
is put on his route home, he will reach home. All he needs is to travel.
Similarly, you too need to travel a path of reformation and require a guide
for your path to reach your destination. If you choose a proper guide, you
will be successful. Your problems can be solved and you will experience
peace and happiness. You are young and cannot afford wasting your life. If
you continue like this, be rest assured you will never be happy even while
enjoying some moments of pleasure.
We advise you consult Doctor Saber of Pakistan.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai