Is it permissible in Islam while having sexual intercourse with my partner are we allowed to lick each others private parts! if no please explain
Answer:
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Human being by nature were created with strong carnal desires. These desires should be fulfilled in a dignified manner.
Shariah strongly emphasizes on shame and modesty. Fulfilling sexual desires according to Shariah, is rewarded by Almighty Allah Subhana wa Ta’ala. One may also be gifted with legitimate children from this action.
One should practice deeds that will gain the pleasure of Allah Subhana wa Ta’ala. Good deeds leads you to Jannah and obscenity leads you away from Jannah.
Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihi wa Salam says to go ahead and do as you please if you do not have any shame.[1]
When sexually aroused the body discharges impure fluid. There is a strong possibility that this impure fluid will enter the mouth of your partner if oral sex is practiced. This is amongst the reasons why the Fuqaha have ruled that oral sex is Makruh Tahrimi (reprehensible).
The mouth is a part of the body which is used for the recitation of the Quran and zikrullah and to hymn the praises of Almighty Allah Subhana Wa Ta’Ala. It is disliked that it should be used to consume any form of impurity.
Oral sex is prohibited under all circumstances and in any form, whether it is with the back or the front private parts.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Mawlana Saeed Ahmed Golaub
Westmoreland, Jamaica, West Indies
Student Darul Iftaa
Checked and Concurred by,
Moulana Ismail Desai
[1] 3484 – حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ رِبْعِيَّ بْنَ حِرَاشٍ، يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ أَبِي مَسْعُودٍ، قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسُ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ، إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحْيِ فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ» صحيح البخاري (4 / 177):
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