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I am a 23/female.i start liking somebody few years ago, i pray Allah that He gives me patience n sabr if that person is not good 4 me

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and if he is a better person i will make sukar to Allah. After that i saw few dreams which indicates that he can b good for me.I made istakharas n they were positive.i leave every thing on Allah and never tell that person that i liked him, he came to know this somehow.Mufti sahib i fear that to say something to him from my side might b a cause of gunah 4 me. but wat can i do , Is this preferred to wait for a time when it will be done through right path or should i try to 4 get him. plz answer me soon

Answer

According to the details of your query, it appears that you like the person in reference for marriage to you. If so, you should discuss the matter with your seniors and if they approve of your choice, your intention may be communicated to him through some male members of your family.

He may respond positively or otherwise and you will know your position from his response. There is no point in liking somebody for marrying and keeping that to yourself as there is a strong possibility of the Shaytaan playing with your Nafs. If the person is interested, exercise precaution before committing yourself to him. If he is not, then move on with your life as there is no point in concentrating on the person. Allah will grant you whatever is best for you in His infinite and absolute knowledge.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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