1. Can a man masturbate (using hands) in the company of of his wife without his wife physically touching him eg He simply looks at her or so called “phone sex”

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Answer:

It is not permissible for a man to masturbate irrespective of the wife being
in his presence or not.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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