I tried to get help from islamic treatment as well as medical help too. I had horrible situation. Thanks to Allah (S.W.T.) that I am better than before. But still I couldn?t recover fully. I feel napak most of the time .( The things around me I feel napak because before I didn?t think of it. But now I understand that I used them before in such a way that some of these are unpure). But I can’t tell this to anyone. Because it will be sort of impossible to wash everything, some things are not even washable. It is again hard to find out which is pak and which is not) Now the problem is if I go to the toilet now it takes 45min. to 1 hour. .I use water all of my body. If I take shower it takes 1 hour to 1 and ½ hour. I feel more often that 1 to 2 drops of urine are coming out if I bend a little( I am taking medicine for that but still I have that problem). I have another problem of wet dreams. Do I need to wash the bed sheet and comforter for that? For female it is hard to find out which is unpure fluid and which is normal discharge. I can’t bend to wash my feet because of the tendency of urine drops or chance of opening that part. I don’t feel dare to touch Qurun because I know my cloths or my body are not pure. Please Brother if you know any dua or anybody’s email no.reagrding to solve the above problems please let me know, if possible send it to my e-mail address. Masalam. Your sister in Islam.
It is sad to hear of your plight. What do you mean by ‘feeling Napaak most
of the time’?
There is no need to wash all over your body after going to the toilet. Why
does it take you so long to take a shower? Quite often, Shaytaan instills
doubts into the hearts of people. As a result, people continue washing parts
of the body and they still don’t feel satisfied about those parts being
thoroughly cleansed. This is one of the reasons the Shari’ah has enforced
the rule of washing three times only.
Once you wash thrice, your Ghusl or Wudhu is complete. If you are still not
satisfied about the area being clean after washing thrice, be rest assured
that Shaytaan is trying to instill doubts into your mind. Just leave it at
that and ignore it. Once you continue ignoring these Shaytaani doubts, your
condition will improve after a few days. Don’t succumb to the dictates of
Shaytaan.
As far as your urine problem is concerned, it seems you are a Ma’zoor
(excused person). A different set of rules apply to the Paaki and Napaaki of
a Ma’zoor (refer attached).
If any part of the bedding is soiled after a wet dream, it should be washed.
If no part of it is soiled, don’t bother.
Continue with the recitation of the Qur’aan after making Wudhu. Again, these
are Shaytaani thoughts through which he is trying to make you abandon the
recitation of the Qur’aan.
and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best
Mufti Muhammad Kadwa
FATWA DEPT.
CHECKED AND APPROVED CORRECT: Mufti Ebrahim Desai