Answered by: Alimah Siddiqa al-Farsiyyah
Question
Everyone had agreed to the marriage, but the mashwarah is saying that we can’t lead a happy life together. Now the girl is also saying that she doesn’t want me. I want to marry her only because I love her a lot and also because I’ve looked after her like she’s my wife, like we’ve held hands, hugged and kissed each other. Please help me with a solution.
بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيْم
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Answer
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,
I understand that you want to get married to someone you are interested in and this is generally a good intention. However, your question is not clear. What do you mean by saying everyone has agreed “but the mashwarah is saying we cannot lead a happy life together”? Please resend your question with more detail and state your question clearly.
Only Allah knows best
Written by Alimah Siddiqa al-Farsiyyah
Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah
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